WHY MOST PEOPLE DONT REALIZE THEIR DREAM ALONG WAY INTO ADULTHOOD
In real life situation we all know about dreams and we all have dreams.It is not the kind of dreams that one has while asleep but those that we consciously have while awake .We call them big wishes that we hope would come true someday.
However, as we grow older and encounter real life challenges,we start developing uncertainty about the practability of even the most easily achievable dreams that we had as children. The big question that keeps bothering many is what happens to our vivid childhood dreams along way into adulthood ?Sometimes we all need the innocent beliefs that we had in our childhood in order to achieve what we want in life .
While growing, still a child you would shout in class when a teacher asked you what you would like to be when you grow up .But what happened along way to adulthood?? Failure is always an unpleasant experience and once it rears its ugly head,nobody wants to go through its embarrassing experience again hence the need to play safe.We all know that almost all of us have the desires and wishes to achieve particular big dreams in life,but very few get committed to taking steps towards achieving their dreams .This leads to lack of the much needed effort in working towards the attainment of the goals that will lead to the dream
Another thing,many people are stuck in comfort zone that is not necessarily comfortable. They are simply satisfied with what they have and where they are in life.They might not have everything that they need or might be aware that they are capable of achieving more so they would rather stick with what is familiar to them.
Lastly,we may be having wonderful dreams ,write very beautiful goals ,set dates and checkpoints and then get stuck at the point .Some people never actually take that first step that is necessarily to set them into a path that will take them to realization of their biggest dream.Without getting started you will get nowhere near achievement of your dreams.There must be deliberate action for you to get going in the right direction .Therefore, if you have created a set of goals to take you to your wildest dreams and wonder why none of them has been accomplished ,just ask yourself what kind of action steps you have taken towards achieving them.If you have not taken any tangible actions then you need to seriously start becoming active in shaping your own destiny.
However, as we grow older and encounter real life challenges,we start developing uncertainty about the practability of even the most easily achievable dreams that we had as children. The big question that keeps bothering many is what happens to our vivid childhood dreams along way into adulthood ?Sometimes we all need the innocent beliefs that we had in our childhood in order to achieve what we want in life .
While growing, still a child you would shout in class when a teacher asked you what you would like to be when you grow up .But what happened along way to adulthood?? Failure is always an unpleasant experience and once it rears its ugly head,nobody wants to go through its embarrassing experience again hence the need to play safe.We all know that almost all of us have the desires and wishes to achieve particular big dreams in life,but very few get committed to taking steps towards achieving their dreams .This leads to lack of the much needed effort in working towards the attainment of the goals that will lead to the dream
Another thing,many people are stuck in comfort zone that is not necessarily comfortable. They are simply satisfied with what they have and where they are in life.They might not have everything that they need or might be aware that they are capable of achieving more so they would rather stick with what is familiar to them.
Lastly,we may be having wonderful dreams ,write very beautiful goals ,set dates and checkpoints and then get stuck at the point .Some people never actually take that first step that is necessarily to set them into a path that will take them to realization of their biggest dream.Without getting started you will get nowhere near achievement of your dreams.There must be deliberate action for you to get going in the right direction .Therefore, if you have created a set of goals to take you to your wildest dreams and wonder why none of them has been accomplished ,just ask yourself what kind of action steps you have taken towards achieving them.If you have not taken any tangible actions then you need to seriously start becoming active in shaping your own destiny.
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